Bobbi,
 
I want to start by saying your professionalism and compassion makes you an incredible teacher. People like yourself are life changers and make enormous contributions to society. Your intense focus to step into another persons mind to find the root cause of certain behaviors and then to blue print a solution takes a sharp, strong minded person like yourself. If only more people know the effect you have on relationships, I guarantee you the divorce rate would be reduced to half. Having said that,  your clients have to commit to a process. Unfortunately, many people find such a commitment to be to difficult for them. They find every excuses in the book as to why it does not work and how they do not have any time. It seems to me that sometimes people give up on valuing themselves and life with their partner. Why? They have not mastered the process of life; communication. Without it, there is no togetherness among partners and a lack of understanding of each other and themselves. One or both may find themselves in a lonely world reaching out to anything that will make them feel better. The many different escapes people reach for never work because it is a false reality. We know this because when our reflection stares back at us in the mirror each morning, the feeling we have is not a pleasant one.
 
I recognized I was one of these people and wanted to do something to help myself and my loved one from this horrible feeling. I am grateful you were sent to help us. I believe all things happen for a reason in life. Life for us is so much more rewarding and continues to improve each day even with the many challenges we face daily. Life is a challenge. I decided to make it a happy challenge with the process you have given us. I can't wait for our big day next month. I envision it being the happiest day of my life and you are a huge factor in it all happening.
 
To sum it all up regarding our process with you, I want to finish by saying:
 
With time, patience and perseverance; all things can be achieved one breath, one thought and one word at a time.
 
Thank you for everything,

John